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farzaana dawray -
3 months ago
Good Morning
While sitting outside in the cold for 3 hours with my 36week pregnant Fiancé we thought that we should share our experience with someone hopefully able to take action, to make things better for all pregnant women out there.
I'll start from the beginning... After my fiance constantly visiting the bathroom from feeling nauseous, we realized that we should get a pregnancy test. Of course it came back with positive which was great news for us. Unfortunately during this time we both ended up without a paying job. We were told that we should visit a clinic nearest to our home, in this case it was Goodwood (western cape, Cape Town). What a pleasant experience, they were extremely helpful, we waited inside for no longer that 15minutes and were helped through all the necessary processes. We were then told that moving forward we have to go to the Elsies River Clinic (Western Cape, Cape Town) this is where the experience became worse but not too bad, they took long but atleast prioritized pregnant women. I as the father/fiance of course was told to wait outside, unfortunately I have no car so stood outside for 4 hours, in 7degree weather. Not too bad, considering my fiance was ok and warmer inside.
On Tuesday 14th June 2022, after doing all check ups at Elsies River, we were told to come to Karl Bremer the Friday, 17th June 2022, for a SCAN.
Now my wife has been here since before 7am (time of appointment 7am) waiting outside in the cold windy weather with most of the other pregnant women till 9:30am, waiting and waiting, not being told what is going on, what time she'll be helped or what is going to happen. Eventually I went inside and complained to the lady at the door. She sent me to window 4 eventually after me telling her that my wife is experiencing contractions and pain due to the cold weather outside.
I stood in que and eventually was able to speak to the lady at window 4, after explaining the situation she told me that my wife's number has not been called and that her number is 39, I then said I'd like an answer as too how long and what this process will consist of. She sent me into the Pre natal side to look for Sister Shilder. After navigating my own way thier I found her, she was extremely Un helpful and basically told me that I must wait untill her number gets called. She said that they were currently at number 20... This means that statistically we would be here waiting for atleast another 4 hours.
My fiance now continues to wait, needing to use the toilet. In pain, sore buttocks just for a scan. This seriously needs to be addressed, God forbid anything happens to the pregnant women sitting in the cold with their unborn child/children because who know who will take the blame.